You sure that know one else knows of your proclivities? Maybe it's just obvious to some people ..
in your family, but not to other people who may be able to read you and your spouse much more closely!
I've often wondered about this, like in a situation like Kaaren's or Sally Bend's .. who know for sure what is happening, and if they were implicitly told, or just figured it out on their own.
I mean, does it ever come up when you are waiting for dinner to be served, and watching the NBA at Christmas, or football on Thanksgiving .. "Well, Earl, that's QUITE the tramp stamp you've got riding above your butt crack!" or an aunt comes over and asks, "Is Walter wearing a bra? I swear I can see a bra strap!"
I know that Mrs. K's assistant has a key to Kaaren's lock., and there's been a few other tales that have been told, but just thought that it'd be interesting if someone else had that intuition that there was kinkiness afoot!
Definitely let us know if someone in your circle has figured out your fetish, and how was it brought up. or do you THINK that someone else knows what is going on, but hasn't said anything yet. That might be even more of an uplift to your senses if that is something that turns you on!
Why use reindeer, when you can get bison instead? They can haul a lot more Christmas loot!