Perhaps maybe it's best that your significant other has no access to some of your hidden desires!
You never know exactly how someone else is going to take it when you present your fantasies to them. Like, "You want domination? I think I can do that! On your knees, slave! Oh, YOU wanted to be the one in control? Hmmm, that doesn't work for me .. Sweetie Pie!" That is what I was going for here in this caption.
And you do hear real life stories about how discussions can arise, and spouses definitely end up getting into the kink, perhaps even more enthusiastically than either one thought could happen. They learn to embrace and thrive in that new arrangement. I've always wondered where exactly the boundaries would be set. Is hubby cool with having a 3-some with his wife and another woman, but doesn't ever want another man there and the 3rd man in? Does the power dynamics change back to "normal" once they leave the bedroom or the house .. or is it a 24/7 thing? Is it only in sexual situations, or does it creep into everyday life?
These things always fascinate me. I was usually always the decision maker with my forever person .. but if I had taken a submissive role once or twice with her .. would she view me differently afterwards, even if it was subconscious? Still makes me ponder it now, as I've been dating steadily since she has passed.
So what say you? In what ways have you seen these sorts of dynamics play out in your life? Do things usually just fall into place, or does it creep in as the relationship matures? How would things shift over time? Are there issues later on trying to put the toothpaste back into the squeeze bottle? Let's talk about this in the comments!
I have been putting a little bit of work and effort into the Rachel's Haven Discord Channel, figuring that it will help me when it's time for me to start up a Deelusions of Grandeur spot. I am hoping to have something up and running before September, but I think that is a good time to shoot for a "grand opening" so to speak. This is all tentative of course. Let me know if you have any ideas for features / sections you'd like to see there.
Also, I'll still take plots or story ideas that involve Beauty Parlors / Hair Salons / Nail Boutiques and such. I've got 2 or 3 given by my followers so far, and I think I might post them each Sunday in August, or I'll do a week of them starting that month.
My God, was Randy Rhoads an incredible guitarist, who was taken from us WAY too soon. I've heard that Eddie Van Halen and he had sort of a feud. Back in the mid 70's, Eddie would play with his back to the crowd, so they couldn't see how he was making the guitar sound like he did. Randy was like, "fuck that!" and let everyone see what HE was doing. I guess back then, in the early 80's, Eddie thought that only Randy was a challenger to his guitar throne. It's a shame that we never got to hear Randy as he grew as a guitarist.